The most important role of a parent or guardian is to keep your child calm. The best way to keep your child calm is to be calm yourself.
You should also know what to expect and explain it to your child beforehand.
Here are some guidelines to use when talking to your child about their heart cath and what to bring along.
At any age
Your child may bring along a “comfort" item — such as a favorite stuffed animal or blankie — to hold during the procedure. There are TVs in the same-day surgery rooms.
You're also welcome to bring a portable DVD player, laptop, or hand-held video game.
2 to 7 years
The day before your child's heart cath, explain the procedure using simple words. You might say that the doctor “will take pictures of your heart while you are taking a nap."
A medical play kit can be helpful so your child learns items they may see. For example, you can show your child how to use a stethoscope on a teddy bear. Books about going to the hospital also might help.
7 to 11 years
For older kids, it might help to discuss their heart cath about a week or so before the scheduled date.
At this point, kids know more about the body, the organs, and how they work. For that reason, they may be more afraid of pain.
You might tell your child that they'll receive medicine before the heart cath that will:
- Make them very tired throughout the heart cath.
- Keep them from feeling any pain during the procedure.
- Make it hard to remember much about the procedure afterward.
You might add that the heart is like a pump. The heart cath will help the doctor see how well their heart is pumping. Books about going to the hospital also might help.
12 years and up
Preteens and teens can understand the way the heart works, what their heart problem is, and why they need a heart cath.
They might ask very insightful questions. Use their questions to help guide your discussion.